I am mostly doing ok, but would love to know your thoughts on this....
Every single bowel movement is painful. I have these episodes of intense cramping, then voiding. Intense cramping and void. Usually one a day. Every other day if I'm lucky.
My nose also becomes congested during these episodes.
It doesn't matter if I eat low fiber or fruits/vegees. It still happens.

They last about an hour until I'm "empty" and totally zaps me for a few hours after that. I really feel terrible once they are over.
The BMs are semi formed to like pudding. Tmi sorry. They are soft and sometimes watery.
At my 2 weeks post op, my doc didn't think this was a big deal and just said it could take a year for my bowels to regulate. Omg I can't live like this for a year. The cramping is excruciating, bringing me to tears and also sometimes nausea.
I plan on calling again today, but would love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Is this normal?