Ostomy reversal

[ssabados]

Hi..I am new to this forum. I have a colostomy due to a perforated diverticulitis. I had surgery in July of this year. I am scheduled for a reversal in January. My surgeon has said it will probably be a 2 step process. Meaning he will reattach colon and then create an ileostomy until the colon heals and then another reversal for the ileostomy a couple of months later. I have read so many recovery stories and more not pleasant than positive. They took 6 in of my sigmoid colon. It was a Hartmann procedure. I am a very active Nana and don't let the grass grow under my feet. After my 1st surgery I was up and walking 2 miles in 3 weeks. From what I am reading the recovery process sounds very scary as far as numerous bowel movements and maybe never being able to control the bowel movements. I have adjusted very well to my colostomy. I am out and about daily and even traveled via airplane and long road trips. But I am very apprehensive with the next steps. Do I keep what I have or risk the reversal. Any advice would be appreciated.

[StevieV1974]

I too am new to this Forum......I had the Hartman procedure back in July of 2024! Lived with the ostomy for just shy of 6 months. Apprehension is not even the right word to use! I flatlined during my initial procedure (i was a raging alcoholic), so needless to say when the reconnection process came due, i was beyond scared! The questions i would have to assume EVERY ostomy patient has, much like yourself, are REAL!
(a little humor is needed with an ostomy to say the least)
I asked the nurse post reconnection surgery, how i would know i have to....Go! She said you will just know....I swear to all that is holy in this world, it was as if God himself put his hand on my shoulder and said release my son..... It was actually emotional! I was afraid there would be pain, bacteria issues, you name it, it went through my head! You've got this!
I forced myself to wake up an hour earlier than usual after the reconnection just to make sure i had no "morning issues" once i left the house! That took about a month to realize, i'm good! No worries to leave the house!
I have not had a single issue since reconnection (knock on wood). It has been a year and a half and i could not be more thankful to be reconnected!
You can do it! Don't let the negative scary stories worry you! Worst 6 months of my life having that attached.