UOAA Discussion Board

Please note, although my own ostomy history is very different from yours, I hope my post will perhaps catch the attention of someone who has positive input to help you. You might also consider posting in the General Forum where more of our readers may respond.
Also, consider visiting the UOAA website https://www.ostomy.org/ which contains a wealth of information.
Please be assured you are not alone in facing your present difficulties.