Backstory: I'm 22 years old and I was born with several deformities, I have had my colostomy since I was born and have had to wear Depends due to urinary incontinence.
I've talked to a urologist to make a continent diversion (I think that's what it's called

Bladder neck reconstruction
Bladder neck sling (rectus fascia)
Bilateral ureteral re-implantation
Creation of catheterizable bladder stoma from appendix or intestine
Possible bladder augmentation (not likely but just in case they get in there and my bladder is smaller than they thought.)
Has anyone here had anything like that done? My doctor said the surgery can take anywhere from 4-5 hours to 12 hours depending on what he finds when he opens me up. If you've had this (or something similar) done would you share your story? I would really appreciate it, I'm 100% confident that this is what I want but I would like to hear others stories.
Thank you!