Retracted stoma, bag repeatedly coming off
Posted: 2019-07-17 19:35:34
Hello!
My elderly mother (94) has had a colostomy for almost 4 years now. The stoma has pretty much been retracted since the original surgery. Due to her age and risk of complications, her doctor has discouraged a re-sitting. We agree!
Mom lives in Assisted Living, so we rely on the staff to change the flange and bag. Unfortunately the flange is prone to popping off regularly (since there isn't an 'external' stoma for the flange 'hole' to wrap around) and she uses her 20 flanges (supplied by Medicare) usually halfway through the month. We've just buy more out of pocket and make the best of it. The perception is the stool is pushing on the backside of the flange and pushes it "off."
Mom is also little overweight and unfortunately with her age and mild dementia she doesn't like wearing supportive undergarments. We believe that aggravates the situation creating a pushing down effect on the flange/bag as well. She's also of that generation that doesn't want to be a bother, so she'll wait until it's popping off and exploding onto her before asking for help or for someone to check. The staff checks the bag once in the morning and once in the evening (we'd prefer it be more frequently, but like most facilities, they seem to often run short-staff unless someone calls for help, no-one is roaming looking for problems. Mom is also now the only one with an ostomy).
Her situation has been reviewed by the wound care nurse at our pouching supply twice. She's great but unfortunately doesn't make on-site calls (we even offered to pay for the visit). Her flange has been changed to a convex, and those semi-circular tape reinforcements have been used on the edge of the flange to the skin. Instructions were given to use no cleaning toilettes or wipes (only warm water, as the flange won't stick properly once other residues on on the skin). Finally, the facility now only lets the nurses change the flange; not the assistants. None of this has reduced the frequency of it popping off.
The head nurse suggested more stool softener. I told her I didn't object to trying, but observed mom's stool was already soft, the consistency of loose pudding, so I worried if it became even looser, would that really help?
Her flange 'hole' is 1" pre-cut. I also wondered if making it wider, since her stoma is retracted, might help? (The theory is less for the stool to push on the back-side)?
Based on all this, we're resigned to the fact what we be at the best we may be able to achieve, considering mom's age, mild dementia, retracted stoma, etc...
Any thoughts? We're open to other's experiences and suggestions!
My elderly mother (94) has had a colostomy for almost 4 years now. The stoma has pretty much been retracted since the original surgery. Due to her age and risk of complications, her doctor has discouraged a re-sitting. We agree!
Mom lives in Assisted Living, so we rely on the staff to change the flange and bag. Unfortunately the flange is prone to popping off regularly (since there isn't an 'external' stoma for the flange 'hole' to wrap around) and she uses her 20 flanges (supplied by Medicare) usually halfway through the month. We've just buy more out of pocket and make the best of it. The perception is the stool is pushing on the backside of the flange and pushes it "off."
Mom is also little overweight and unfortunately with her age and mild dementia she doesn't like wearing supportive undergarments. We believe that aggravates the situation creating a pushing down effect on the flange/bag as well. She's also of that generation that doesn't want to be a bother, so she'll wait until it's popping off and exploding onto her before asking for help or for someone to check. The staff checks the bag once in the morning and once in the evening (we'd prefer it be more frequently, but like most facilities, they seem to often run short-staff unless someone calls for help, no-one is roaming looking for problems. Mom is also now the only one with an ostomy).
Her situation has been reviewed by the wound care nurse at our pouching supply twice. She's great but unfortunately doesn't make on-site calls (we even offered to pay for the visit). Her flange has been changed to a convex, and those semi-circular tape reinforcements have been used on the edge of the flange to the skin. Instructions were given to use no cleaning toilettes or wipes (only warm water, as the flange won't stick properly once other residues on on the skin). Finally, the facility now only lets the nurses change the flange; not the assistants. None of this has reduced the frequency of it popping off.
The head nurse suggested more stool softener. I told her I didn't object to trying, but observed mom's stool was already soft, the consistency of loose pudding, so I worried if it became even looser, would that really help?
Her flange 'hole' is 1" pre-cut. I also wondered if making it wider, since her stoma is retracted, might help? (The theory is less for the stool to push on the back-side)?
Based on all this, we're resigned to the fact what we be at the best we may be able to achieve, considering mom's age, mild dementia, retracted stoma, etc...
Any thoughts? We're open to other's experiences and suggestions!