ADVICE WANTED --Total Colectomy and Stoma Revision
Posted: 2025-11-05 19:11:30
Hi everyone,
I’m a 28-year old, active female. Been a loop ileostomate for one year due to obstructive constipation and pelvic floor collapse as complications of hypermobility (Ehlers Danlos Syndrome). My recovery took a long time due to extensive weight loss but I’m still so grateful and much healthier than before.
Anyways, I’m starting to prepare for my eventual total colectomy with preservation of the rectum and will be having my loop ileostomy converted to an end ileostomy at the same time.
I’m hoping to have a minimally invasive procedure (“Keyhole” - laparoscopic or robotic). My first surgery was at UCSF in California, but I am willing to travel for the best care if needed. There is some possibility I will be relocating to the UK or Netherlands so anywhere in America or there is on the table.
I’d love to hear from anyone who has gone through a similar surgery, especially the total colectomy and stoma revision at once — what was your recovery like? Did you have it done laparoscopically or robotically?
I’m also hoping to learn from your experiences about:
How you chose your surgeon or hospital, will take recommendations if you had a good experience with minimally invasive!
What questions you asked and wish you’d asked beforehand
Tips for minimizing parastomal hernia risk (stoma placement; considerations for colon removal incision site such as out the stoma, through the anus, or through another incision; adding prophylactic mesh to the stoma, etc.)
Your biggest takeaways or lessons learned. I try to be pretty physically active too so feel free to include anything you considered along these lines.
As this will be a big step, I would appreciate your withholding any horror stories here. I’m so sorry if this has been your experience and I don’t need to be any more terrified than I already am. You might simply say, “I wouldn’t recommend X, Y, Z because…”
I’m grateful for any insight or experiences you can share — thank you in advance for helping me prepare as thoughtfully as possible.
Hugs,
Amy
I’m a 28-year old, active female. Been a loop ileostomate for one year due to obstructive constipation and pelvic floor collapse as complications of hypermobility (Ehlers Danlos Syndrome). My recovery took a long time due to extensive weight loss but I’m still so grateful and much healthier than before.
Anyways, I’m starting to prepare for my eventual total colectomy with preservation of the rectum and will be having my loop ileostomy converted to an end ileostomy at the same time.
I’m hoping to have a minimally invasive procedure (“Keyhole” - laparoscopic or robotic). My first surgery was at UCSF in California, but I am willing to travel for the best care if needed. There is some possibility I will be relocating to the UK or Netherlands so anywhere in America or there is on the table.
I’d love to hear from anyone who has gone through a similar surgery, especially the total colectomy and stoma revision at once — what was your recovery like? Did you have it done laparoscopically or robotically?
I’m also hoping to learn from your experiences about:
How you chose your surgeon or hospital, will take recommendations if you had a good experience with minimally invasive!
What questions you asked and wish you’d asked beforehand
Tips for minimizing parastomal hernia risk (stoma placement; considerations for colon removal incision site such as out the stoma, through the anus, or through another incision; adding prophylactic mesh to the stoma, etc.)
Your biggest takeaways or lessons learned. I try to be pretty physically active too so feel free to include anything you considered along these lines.
As this will be a big step, I would appreciate your withholding any horror stories here. I’m so sorry if this has been your experience and I don’t need to be any more terrified than I already am. You might simply say, “I wouldn’t recommend X, Y, Z because…”
I’m grateful for any insight or experiences you can share — thank you in advance for helping me prepare as thoughtfully as possible.
Hugs,
Amy