Hi - I was also using ABD pads, but found that they weren't as effective as Always Overnight Maxi pads (super of maximum absorbency - which ever is the most). Not with wings!! I cut the pad in half and affix it over my stoma with tape running horizontally across the top and bottom. Then when I am ready to cath. I just flip the pad down. The pads seem to hold more than the ABD pads and for whatever reason I feel more secure w/ them.
(I have to say that I was somewhat chagrined to be using pads. I had to buy some yesterday, and this after giving my sister a huge gift bag of the many different types of left over sanitary pads I have used in the last year. Part of my surgery involved a radical hysterectomy.....I was so glad to get rid of the pads!! Ha! Here I am w/ them again!).
I am
very new to this - I've only had my pouch for about 6 1/2 weeks (wow, it seems longer......). I, too, was having problems going longer than 2 1/2 hrs during the day, but it seems that I am slowly being able to get to 3 hours on a more regular basis. To get from the 2 hrs to the 3 hrs during the day I took it really slow, only increased it every 10 or 15 minutes for about a week.
Overall, it seems that it all depends on what I drink, how much, and
sometimes what I'm doing (which, truth be told, isn't much just yet!!). Sometimes its less than 2.5 hrs -- but I try not to let it get to me too much if it is. Did you follow the catheterization schedule?
I gather from other posts that leaking can occur a lot the first year, and that it even happens periodically with people that have had their pouch for years.
Nights we are working on 4.5 hrs now. For what ever reason, I can make it the first 4 hours and have a pretty good size output (500 ccs). Sometimes though, I can't quite get through the 2nd four hours (and yet, one night last week I missed the alarm and went 7 hrs - go figure).
Just this morning I was wondering if it has anything to do w/ sleeping on my side (leakage) vs. my back.
Does anyone else notice an increase in leakage depending on the position in which they sleep?????
I have also seen some posts where people stop drinking at a certain time each night. I'm not doing that -- I drink up until bedtime.
Leaking is a real hassle, and it does worry me, esp. when I think about spending a lot of time out and about, or doing the things I used to do. I hope that the Maxi pads work for you.
Oh! I also just received a sample of pads from AMPatch (
http://www.ampatch.com/). They list pads w/ different levels of absorbency. I haven't tried them yet, but the company is extremely willing to send samples - and if you mention leakage, they'll send you the absorbent ones.
Good Luck and hope this helps --
Luv2hike